Which brings us to the question of the day, is it okay to tell that
person how you feel so soon? Is it ever too early to tell someone ‘I
Well, this question depends on who you are with and the type of love you
mean. Sometimes, one might take too long to say it, end up losing the
person because they’d think you’re not that much into them after all and
in the same vein, if the chemistry is still not strong enough or the
friendship still very new, then perhaps, you will have press pause.
“You may ask,”how do I know when the timing isn’t right?” “Well, you
never really know, you just watch the body language, check if they
comfortable with you?do they seem into you as much as you are?how often
do they want to hear from you, you put these into consideration?
Relationships do not start in a day it is a gradual process which is why
even if you get attracted to someone you need to take things easy and
not rush things.
Here are 3 reasons you shouldn’t say “I love you” too soon:
“Saying “I love you” too soon might seem unbelievable
at times because when quickly said, it might lose its meaning and that
person wouldn’t believe you and might choose to stay away from you”.
“Action speaks louder than words, one easily believe
what one can see than what one is being told so before you start saying
how you feel, show it first with your action — that’s what makes it
“Let that person warm up to you first, love becomes
reciprocal when two people feel the same way but when it’s just one
person feeling it, then it won’t be reciprocated so take your time and
show that person how you feel before you say how you feel; let the
person warm up to you first, and then it’ll be easier for the person to
So never ever make the mistake of saying “I love you” too soon.